Thursday, October 17, 2013

RICH PASTOR, POOR CONGREGATION


Summer time is here and the temperature is very high especially during day time. Last Friday evening, I decided to take an evening walk around the neighbourhood to enjoy the cool evening breeze. 

As I passed an area which has a number of church buildings, my eyes fell on one huge unfinished structure. This structure has been like this for the past 3 or more years. Looking at this unfinished building, one can see that this was meant to be a very beautiful and an expensive church if it was fully completed. 

I started wondering what the problem was for the building project to stall like this for all these years. How can someone start a building and then fail to finish it? Did they run out of money? If that was the case then I would laugh at whoever was in charge of this for their bad planning. No one can embark on such a huge project when they know they had no money to complete the building.

This unfinished building was also going to be the biggest of all the structures lined up in this street. The other church buildings in this area were fully completed and I could see people inside attending evening service. Some of these buildings were new projects started less than 2 years years or a year and they have been successfully been completed.

It is not very strange in Zambia to see an unfinished church building. Most of them have been in a static state or they take years and years being built at a snail's pace. I have also seen many Churches finish their building projects in just a year. So what is the problem with these other churches that struggle to finish their projects? 

When a person wants to build a house, the first thing he must do is to organise some money. When the time for building comes, he has to look at a plan that will meet his financial strength. No man can start building a 4 bedroom house when he only has money to build a 2 bedroom house. 

I know you may think a church needs a bigger building because many people are expected to go inside that building. I agree with you but it is still unwise to start a project and have it stall because you have run out money. 

Some wise church leaders make plans for building small churches that will accommodate a good number of people. The first group will have its service in the morning at 8:00 hours and after 2 hours another group can go in, and a third group will go in after that. This helps to decongest the church and save the congregation from erecting very costly gigantic structures which risk being unfinished when the money stops coming.

When I posed the question to my friends why many church buildings stall after reaching a certain level, one of them said, "Because some crooked pastors take the money we put as offering to do the work. God cannot come and collect the money. God is ever rich and gave us everything that exists so where does the money go?"

This sounds a bit harsh but it may have an element of truth. Some pastors are not honest. The Post newspaper on Tuesday October 15 carried a news story headlined "Some pastors fear to lose big tithers, says Sichilongo". The article reported Kitwe's Pentecostal Holiness Church Reverend, Ospeck Sichilongo saying, "We have pastors who are fearing to talk about the sinful actvities of their members especially if such members are big tithers and offereing contributors." 

This reminds me of what my friend told me last year when he was invited to attend a church service by one of his neighbours. He was surprised that the pastor spent most of the time preaching about money and material blessings.  He said that at one point the pastor was telling the congregation that they should take good care of him and his family because he cannot be poor when the God he serves is a rich God. 

"My fellow Pastors are driving to church while I walk here every Sunday. Why should I walk when I serve a rich God? Why should I live like a beggar when I serve a rich God?"

The Pastor was telling this to poor members of his congregation who over 90% came to that morning's church service either walking or by using public transportation. This pastor uses a school classroom for his Sunday service. I can not avoid to think about what he would do with part of the money meant for building a church if that project was embarked on because already you can see that he wants to own a car. 

His request also brings out another question. Is it the responsibility of the congregation to buy things like cars, houses, pay his children's school fees and so on? There are different views on this matter. Some people believe a pastor should not get rich through the church but through his own hard work like everyone else. Others think there is nothing wrong with the pastor getting rich through his work because he earns it through preaching.

Many pastors today are accused of preaching what is called "Prosperity Gospel". Their sermons have very little to do with salvation but they are full of materialism or "blessings". It is all about money, money, money and wealth. Many pastors who preach about worldly prosperity have massive pay cheques and own many properties and businesses suspected to have been gained through the church.

Of course there are many pastor who have gained their wealth through their own sweat and hard work but there are many more who are taking advantage of their positions to gain wealth. 

The government of Botswana in May declared a pastor from one West Afrcan country a prohibited immigrant after his superiors from his country of origin told the Bostwana government that he was not remitting money to them as required. It is alleged that he was using this money for his personal gain and living a luxurious life. Why some pastors, who are the custodians of the word of God are so easily tempted is beyond imagination. 

Many people who have travelled by bus especially between Lusaka the Copperbelt have seen preachers getting on the bus at the station to preach to passengers sitting inside the bus waiting for the bus to load. While it is not bad to preach the gospel to travellers, it all becomes suspicious when at the end of the short sermon, these preachers start demanding for money or "offerings" from the passengers. Does this money get to the churches that these people belong to if at all they belong to any? Are they just cleverly asking to be paid for preaching? 


It is quite evident that the love of money has infected many pastors and this is what is leading to their downfall. When a person is so obsessed with money, he will not even see the small wrong things that he is doing for him to get that money. Many pastors are not employed or are paid little money which cannot fully sustain them in this hard economy where prices of commodities and services are rising daily. 

Other pastors are power hungry. When they see a fellow pastor doing very well, they will mistakenly think his wealth is coming from the church and they will push their members to the limit in making contributions. This is where some pastors will even bring in projects like building, selling of literature, DVDs and so on. And what would be the best way to get money through a building project than coming up with a proposal to buid a very big church which will take more than two years to finish? 

Unfortunately, after a few years when the buiding does not seem to be moving, the members of that church stop contributing as much as they used to in the building because they become suspicious. Maybe this is what leads to the building project coming to a standstill. 

These greedy pastors must remember that the bible itself does not encourage such people to be leaders in church. 1 Timothy 3:3 tells us that the qualities of a leader must be "not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money."

Image courtesy of stockimages, freedigtalphotos.net

Thursday, October 10, 2013

MORE IMAGES FROM NDOLA

8 Ball Pool is a very popular game in the townships. Every Sunday
players from many Clubs play in tournaments like the one above.
These games are mostly played in pubs and are characterised with
a lot of shouting. It is a very different environment from the ones
that we watch on many televised games where the audience only
claps when a player pots. 
October 24 is Zambia's Independence day. After more than 40
years of Independence, many Zambians still remember this day
and they celebrate it in many ways. School children are allowed to
wear national colours on this day. This is probably for the sake of
reminding them to keep the heritage. 
Sunday afternoon, mothers with their children have some fun at
POTECO club. 
Zambia is a nation where many people like football. These
young boys are being drilled by their coach before playing a friendly
game with a visiting team. Many top Zambian players started
their careers in the same way.
This community does not have water taps installed at every house.
People have to get their water from this community tap where they
have to pay a small amount of money which is like a water bill.
However the amount is too little when compared to what people
who have installed taps pay at the end of the month. 
One of my favourite times in Ndola is when there is a big football
match involving the Zambia National Team. the whole city becomes
one huge carnival. In this picture, soccer fans can be seen drinking
and roasting some meat before going to watch the game. 
It is not always that you wake up to good news. These unfortunate
traders woke up to find that their stalls were burn in a fire at night.
Most of these traders sold charcoal, second hand clothes, food,
vegetables and various items.  
The COSAFA Football tournament was this year held in Zambia
and the final was played in Ndola at Levy Mwanawasa Sports
Stadium. Zambia and Zimbabwe played in the final and Zambia
beat Zimbabwe 2-0. Above, the two teams lining up for the
National Anthems of the two nations. Zambia is wearing Orange. 
Summer time adds its own beauty. This is my favourite tree and it 
is found in Dag Hammarskjold Drive. Unfortunately, the yellow
flowers only last for a few weeks before they fall down and then 
replaced by very green leaves. 
6:00 hrs. Another sunrise and an early motorist cruises for work.
Within a few minutes, this road will be crowded with school boys
and girls walking to school, men and women going for their
respective businesses and minibuses ferrying workers into town.

Monday, October 7, 2013

IT'S MY LIFE, I CAN DO ANYTHING WITH IT

                   

Many times we have heard people say "It's my life. I can do whatever I want with it". This is one of the most annoying responses. 

Who the hell doesn't know that it is your life? Yes it is your life but what you're doing with your life may just leave you without a life at all. When people try to correct you on something that they feel you are not doing right, they are not trying to take over your life and start running it on your behalf.

They just don't like seeing you doing what you you are doing with your life because they know what the consequences will be in the end. Everyone has a right to their bodies and they can do whatever they want with them but only a fool will want to harm himself.

Most of the times when people start getting concerned about what you are doing, it is because they like you. If they did not like you I am sure they would just sit back and enjoy the show to self destruction. Sometimes you may just be too dumb to see that what you're doing is useless or harmful and that you need a helping hand. 

Imagine that I have spotted a naked electric cable lying on the ground but when  I see you heading that way, I just watch without warning you. If you stepped on that cable and got injured or died, I am sure people would condemn me for being such a heartless person. If it was possible you might even rise from the dead to haunt me. 

The horn on the vehicle is not there for just making noise or annoying other motorists. Its main purpose is to warn the pedestrians or other road users to "look out" for any possible danger of being knocked down by a car. The mouth is there not just for kissing and eating. With it you can warn others and save their lives. You have probably done that many times before, even shouting "Watch out" to warn someone. Everyone has warned someone at one time even for small things like stepping on a toy.  

Then why do you think when someone is trying to warn you over your lifestyle then that person is trying to interfere with how you live your life? If you live with people, just know that whatever you do will affect them or it will have an impact on them too. 

Many teenagers feel that their parents are trying to run their life on their behalf or that their parents are so involved in their personal lives. They think that parents are just too strict even on simple issues. Yes, many parents are overprotective and it is because they love their children and not because they want to make their children's lives miserable. 

Parents tell their children what to do or how to do things correctly or even choose what type of friends to play with. Although this may feel like total control, remember that they are older and they have some wisdom which you my not have. They have seen and been through some of these things. 

Think about this. Your parents haven been buying and doing things to make you happy from the day that you were born. Do you think if they did not want you to be happy, they would have been doing all these things? So what makes you think that they are here to make your life miserable or hell on earth? 

Some parents can truly be overprotective without leaving you a chance to explore or experience certain things that other teenagers are doing. These parents may be wrong in a way. A baby bird can not learn how to fly if each time it tries to fly its mother would shout "Don't do that, you'll fall down and hurt yourself." 

When a child or a teenager does something wrong, a parent can understand and teach that child what to do next time. I just hate it when an adult is the one that keeps messing up. In the end these people end up looking like idiots when they fail to heed the advice they were given and in the end things go horrinly wrong for them. This is usually the best time to tell them "I told you so."

Many people are facing problems because they did not listen to advice from friends or family and instead chose to follow their own decisions because they thought it was the best solution. We all have moments of regret in our lives. The best we can do is to look back on a choice or decision that was unwisely made and learn from that.

The next time someone tries to give you advice, don't just say "It's my life, let me live it the way I want" because they already know that it is your life. That person may just save the same life that you are bragging about.    


Image courtesy of Teerapun /freedigitalphotos.net

Friday, October 4, 2013

CATS AND DOGS


"All men are dogs, it's just that we own different breeds."

"If all men are dogs, then women are cats! Only cats cover their shit"

"Looking for a right man is very much like looking for the right dog."

"Women are like cats, they do not get along with each other. Why do you think when women are fighting they call it a 'cat fight'?"

These are just a few quotes from the battle of the sexes. Many women compare men to dogs while on the other hand men say women are like cats. There is also a belief by many women that all men are the same. Men are lumped up in one pile and labeled as all being unfaithful and untrustworthy.

At school, I had a female classmate who used to tell us that her mother told her that all men, excluding her father, were dogs. I just hope she did not grown up with that notion embedded deep in her mind because many women who believe that men are dogs usually do not have strong abilities in their relationships to men.

A friend once asked, "Why do women think all men are the same? If all men are the same, why do women take time to choose one instead of just picking anyone at random?" Maybe it is for the same reason why dog owners take time to choose what breed they want to buy. 

I have seen women fighting for a man many times than I have seen men fighting for a woman. Take time and watch the Jerry Springer show and see how women rip off each other's hairdos fighting for a pot bellied drunkard. Is that not proof that men are not the same? If they were all the same, these women would not be fighting over a replicated item which was abundantly available.  

Usually, women who have been disappointed  by men or who have been through a string of bad relationships are the ones who believe that all men are like dogs or that all men are the same. These women must not brainwash the younger generation of the female sex because there are a lot of good men out there. 

Of  course there are some men who the "dog" tag may fit perfectly because of their behaviour. But this does not mean we are all the same. The same applies to women. Not all of them are the same. Some women are even twice crazier than men when it comes to doing the dog like things. 

Women lie. They also steal and cheat. Just the other day, I read about this woman who defiled a 5 year old boy and infected the poor boy with a sexually transmitted disease. The mother of the child attempted to conceal the incident but she was forced to take the child to the hospital after his condition worsened. 

The statistics in regards to sexual assault as well as spousal abuse leans heavily on the men and this seems to be one other reason why men are labeled dogs. One woman wrote "Generally speaking, men kind of suck and when you start to think about it, why do we even care about them at all?"

The answer is simple. A dog is man's best friend and it performs valuable service to humans. The same can be said of men when it comes to doing valuable service to women. Women like men who do things for them. 

Long time ago, dogs were kept by man for hunting and defending. Although not every dog is friendly, there are so many heroic feats achieved by dogs in service to man. 

One such dog was Sergeant Stubby. Stubby is perhaps the only dog or animal to be given an army rank. Stubby was found straying by John Robert Conroy who was undergoing military training. When time came for him to ship for World War 1, he smuggled the dog along with him.

Stubby became one of the many dogs living in trenches in France. With his acute sense of smell and hearing, Stubby would warn the men of poison gas attacks or incoming artillery. He also managed to locate and rescue wounded soldiers and at one time captured a German spy single handed. 

Stubby participated in 17 battles and was awarded several patches and medals which he wore on a coat. Ironically, this coat was made for him by the women of a liberated French town.

Many other dogs have gone down in history for their service to mankind. Barry was a rescue dog in the mountains of Switzerland. One story tells of how Barry discovered a small child on top of an ice ledge and he kept him warm and awake by licking his face while barking loudly. Eventually, the young boy wrapped his arms around the dog's neck and he carried the boy down after the snow became heavy and the rescue men could not climb the steep cliff.  

Togo and Balto were sled dogs assigned to lead a team through Alaska carrying serum for the town. Doctors feared that a diphtheria epidemic could hit the town of Nome. The only available serum was in Anchorage which was almost 1000 miles away. The engine of the only aircraft available was frozen. Officials then decided the serum would be relayed by several teams of sled dogs. 

Togo's team was chosen to carry the serum through the most treacherous part of the route, and ended up travelling almost twice the distance of any of the other teams. Balto's team took the cargo for the last leg of the journey and ultimately delivered the serum. Togo had a statue erected in in his honour in New York's Central Park and both dogs have their remains on display in separate museums.

When a woman tells a man he is like a dog, instead of getting annoyed, maybe that man ought to comfort himself by knowing that a dog is brave, loyal and loved by many people. A dog will come to your rescue and even warn you when intruders are about to break into your house.

Women like keeping pet dogs and the reasons vary. Some of them are that the dog does not talk back and he does not interrupt. Cats have been know to be lazy and hardly do anything helpful in the house apart from eating and sleeping. They only come in handy when there are mice in the house. However, there have been some cats who have also done heroics acts like dogs have done.

In 1996 robbers tried to break in the home of a woman Guylaine Labonte. When they failed to break in, they set a fire to cover their tracks. The woman was unaware because she was sleeping. Her cat named Etoile du Nuit woke the woman. 

Another story is of a cat named Trixie. The Earl of Southampton was locked in the Tower of London for insurrection. The story is that his cat Trixie somehow climbed into his cell and kept him company for two years until he was released. It is even believed that the cat hunted and brought birds to help feed her human friend. 

The truth is that men and women think differently. When watching the news, a man may focus on the contents of the news while a woman is looking at the dress or hairstyle of the newsreader. Man and woman will always have small differences but we are all made to compliment each other. 

We must agree that we are different and we shall never be the same. Even when it comes to handwriting, you can easily tell if the writer was a woman or a man even if the text was written many years ago.

Even with sex, women prefer 30 to 40 minutes of foreplay while men just need 30 to 40 seconds of foreplay. I don't know about cats and dogs.

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