BROKE MEN SHOULD STOP HAVING SEX

 One lady wrote on Facebook that “Men who are broke should stop having sex”. This update caused a lot of debate with many people condemning her. This was not a surprise because I too felt this was a ridiculous statement. It was probably the understatement of the week.

However, some women were excited and jumped on her bandwagon, applauding the statement as a true fact. They mentioned that lazy men should not be tolerated. Men should be able to work hard and provide everything that a woman needs.

Yes indeed, the fact that a man should be the provider is correct and all men are naturally born with that instinct. That however does not mean that all men are rich. Some are poor and not because they want it to be that way but because of circumstances that surround them. I have seen poor men who have families and they provide for their families in their own small ways.

Are these men not allowed to have sex?

And how does sex tie in with being broke? I guess only a prostitute can think like that. Sounds harsh?  According to the Oxford English Dictionary, prostitution is the practice or occupation of engaging in sexual activity for payment.

Prostitutes turn sex into a business venture. Their bodies are on sale to anyone who has the money to pay for that service. They sell sex to hundreds of different people and are prepared to perform any sexual act as long as the client pays accordingly. A prostitute’s mind is focused on money before giving anyone sexual favours. It doesn’t matter how handsome you are, you cannot get free sex from a prostitute.

Broke men cannot have sex with a prostitute.

Men who have sex with prostitutes usually do not have any respect for such women because they consider them as sex objects and to some extent they even regard them as retards. Even the prostitute herself is mentally affected. A common argument against prostitution states that selling sex is harmful because it involves selling something deeply personal and emotional.

One woman posted in Yahoo Answers: “My husband wants to pay me for sex. Would this make me a prostitute?” Different answers were given and I have selected a few that I thought were interesting answers

“No, you’re still married.”

“Technically, yes. That would be prostitution.”

“Yes that would make you a prostitute. A weird one actually.”

“This is a strange situation. I don’t think you should do this if no feelings are there which sounds like there aren’t.”

“Sex for pay? Yes that does make you a prostitute. The fact he would think you are the type of person says heaps about how he thinks of you. How you react says as much about how you see yourself too.”

Many people would argue that being paid once for sex is not prostitution unless you take that a full time occupation. If a man takes a gun and walks into a bank and robs the bank, that is robbery if it was the first and only time that he did that. The same can be said of prostitution. If you sell sex once, you have engaged in prostitution.

However, there are relationships in which men would give a woman some money but not necessarily as a fee for the service rendered but just as an obligation. In this situation, a man can come and have sex with that woman even when he does not have money. He can give the woman some money when he has some and not demand for sex. That is basically a sexual relationship. A relationship based on consensual sex.

Men have been paying for sex for a long time and they still do. The reason some men do this is because they do not want to be in a relationship that will bring commitments. They would rather pay for sex from a prostitute because a prostitute will not bring her emotional luggage in their life. As soon as a prostitute is paid, everything is over. Even if you saw her with another man, it will not pain you.

Sometimes a prostitute may become pregnant and will not take the man to task and be responsible for that child because she knows that the man only paid for sex and not to be given a child. Many men would not accept a child from a prostitute because they know she has slept with several other men. This is the same as a businessman ordering merchandise and the delivery van being involved in an accident. The businessman will not responsible for that accident and loss of merchandise.

Women who sell themselves are regarded lowly in society. The reason is simply because it is repulsive to think that one woman can entertain so many people sexually. Some prostitutes get rich through selling their bodies sexually but they still remain with that negative tag. Most of these women, even when they are married still have that trait of prostitutions in them. Even if they have completely given up the profession, people will still regard them as loose people.

There are two types of women, those who are married and those that are not. If a married woman denies sex to her husband because he is broke, that woman must ask herself why she got married to him in the first place. She must also ask herself how many times she has paid for sex.

Every single woman must focus on finding a responsible man than thinking about using her body to earn some money. Men earn money without selling their bodies (although there a few that do that). What I know is that the oldest profession (prostitution) is here to stay and only the rules are changing.

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